Something wasn’t right. And it wasn’t his fault. As parents, we’d gotten lazy about evening snacks. Almost nightly he was requesting (and getting) a little bowl of chocolate bunnies or crackers or peanut butter-filled pretzels. I was concerned about the habit …. this almost Pavlovian experience where he thinks that upon showering, he needs a snack — even if he’s not hungry.
I started thinking … How can we rein this in? How can we teach a 4-year-old that no, he doesn’t need a snack every night?